my makeup is horrifying my face

Hi, I basically always use the same makeup, colorful shadow, lip gloss, eyeliner, and mascara, and a contour to slim my nose, but I've been noticing that the contour makes my nose bigger, instead of making my nose smaller, the eye shadow makes it smaller, instead of making my eyes look bigger, I'm getting a lot of negative comments because of my makeup.

Sometimes I just want to post a video of myself dancing feeling good, but my makeup makes my face look horrible, please what can I do? I feel unhappy with the results, it's been a while since I posted a photo on social media because of my makeup, it's only when my friends do my makeup that I really look beautiful😫