Should we just date each other?

So, one of the biggest contributors to quality of life and practical support when managing a chronic illness is having a partner. Friends and community really don't cut it when a true emergency arises. In an ideal world, we could match up with the most compatible person, but I think the limitations imposed by this disability often preclude us from dating in the wider dating pool. I am happy for and proud of those members here who have long term committed partners.

My point is, if you are single and have Lyme, what is your love life like? If dating healthy people seems too hard, do you focus exclusively on other chronically ill people to ''maintain parity'? If you just don't date at all, what's your long term plan?

How do you all meet people ? How do you disclose your disability status?

PS: how do you all stay reasonably fit in order to attract a mate? I'm a gay man and my muscles are shrinking

EDIT: IF YOURE IN THE BAY AREA, LETS GO ON AN IRL FRIEND DATE. Like ... im just as tired and sick as you are, so there's no pressure to perform in an able-bodied way...