Self-awareness in the women

It's really jarring to see how many of the women are quite self aware of what is happening (like Alina saying she doesn't want to be someone's 2nd option and that in the real world she would have left Ilias, or Hannah saying to Tolga that she doesn't appreciate how he just went for his ego etc.) but then when it's about actions, all these women just continue this misery, entertaining these men 😭 I'm in a constant swap between "yay they GET IT that these guys are mistreating them!!!" But then they just continue with their bs and it's a cycle...