One thing I will never Do
Marrying a housewife,
This is something I will never do, heri nikae single. These housewives are always idle. I have my aunt who is one of them. What she usually do is to wake up and have breakfast and get into a phone call that will last for hours. It's in this phone call that she usually broadcast everything that is happening in that house. Even those ones that aren't supposed to be told.
She has a sis who's also my mom's friend, and you know women with gossip. Every little thing that happens in this house, you definitely know it has been broadcasted and it will come to you since your mom will also get the info (I usually gossip with my mom sometimes). I don't usually like this, and I swore I will never tell this aunt anything concerning me because I know the info will be passed around and come back to me.
If she had a job or something to do, she would have little to no time to make those long calls. I haven't mentioned she's lazy, you know those mijikenda women.
Anyway my redflag no 1: If she doesn't have a job🚩