Help meeee

As a hijabi, it’s really important to pinpoint what colors and kind of binding style suits you the most, as the headscarf sits right at the face and a mismatch - be that in color, fabric or draping, can be quite obvious. I feel like it’s really hard for me to pinpoint my essence blend and color harmony. Even though I am a Dark autumn, I think that icy and ethereal hijabs suit my face the best (I really like the ice blue and shimmery white one). But when I asked friends and family if they see ethereal in me, most of them said no. Also, I really like ingenue outfits - but looking at some of these pictures, i feel like they are a total mismatch for me!

So, what do you guys think? What essence percentages would you give me, and which colors harmonize the most with me?