i’m tired of spending on men

i’m sorry but every guy i come across has coincidentlally just been so miserly in the sense that nobody sees that i also wanna be pampered the way i would pamper them. i extend my wallet to pay for outings but never see the men i go out with do it, or maybe im too forward and they think that she’s always gonna do it.

i recently bought an fwb guy stuff worth ₹3k, i’m not rich and i barely earn to buy myself nice things but i thought we were progressing towards something solid and i wanted to solidify it on the occasion of his birthday, and the guy just says “oh that’s sweet, but please don’t expect such gifts from me in the future” and he adds he’s joking but im just heartbroken. i don’t know where you find men who take care of you like their own but im just tired.