Looking to Accurately Represent Incontinence in My Story—Seeking Firsthand Experiences

Hi, everyone. I’m currently writing a story and would love to make sure I represent incontinence in an accurate and respectful way. I’m asking here because I want to better understand the daily challenges, emotional struggles, and practical difficulties that come with living with incontinence. I don’t want to oversimplify or misrepresent this experience, and I feel that hearing from those who live with it is the best way to get a deeper understanding.

If you feel comfortable sharing, I’d love to hear:

• What are some of the biggest challenges you face on a day-to-day basis?
• How does it affect your social life, relationships, or dating?
• What misconceptions do people have about incontinence that you wish were addressed?
• Are there any particular coping strategies that help, or things others could do to offer support?

Thank you so much for your time and insight. I really appreciate any input you’re able to provide and have a good day!