If you can’t accept someone for having this you shouldn’t even consider or be with them.

The point is don’t waste people’s time who do have this. If you are stigmatizing and you can’t personally handle it by all means it’s your choice but make that choice of yours and fully decide you don’t want to be involved. Don’t stigmatize, waste people’s time, or make them feel bad about something they can’t help. If the answer is no then stay away. It’s either an all yes or an all no it’s not a half way type of deal. Everyone deserves love and acceptance. Nobody is exempt.