I need the Soft Doms standing in the back to speak up please
It’s no secret that this subreddit tends to lean heavily toward the degrading and sadistic aspects of BDSM. Out of curiosity, during my 7-day new user purgatory, I kept track of participants in the LFP Megathread. I found that roughly 55% to 60% of users have engaged in some form of public sexual “toxicity.” This includes posts or comments centered around themes like humiliation, degradation, cheating, or other controversial dynamics—r*pe being one of the most common.
Where are all the soft and gentle Dominants? The true Gentlemen and Ladies of this community? Those who value kindness, positivity, and treating others as human beings rather than as worthless objects. I know this is a common request on this subreddit, but honestly, the constant focus on degradation can be draining. Degradation is just one aspect of kink, yet it’s so pervasive here that it often feels like the two are inseparable.
It’s no secret that this subreddit tends to lean heavily toward the degrading and sadistic aspects of BDSM. Out of curiosity, during my 7-day new user purgatory, I kept track of participants in the LFP Megathread. I found that roughly 55% to 60% of users have engaged in some form of public sexual “toxicity.” This includes posts or comments centered around themes like humiliation, degradation, cheating, or other controversial dynamics—r*pe being one of the most common.
Where are all the soft and gentle Dominants? The true Gentlemen and Ladies of this community? Those who value kindness, positivity, and treating others as human beings rather than as worthless objects. I know this is a common request on this subreddit, but honestly, the constant focus on degradation can be draining. Degradation is just one aspect of kink, yet it’s so pervasive here that it often feels like the two are inseparable.