Can someone with ADHD be good at epee?

Advice I am seeking:

I'm in my mid-30s, I have been fencing foil for about half a year and I'm seriously considering switching to epee. However, I have ADHD (primary inattentive type) am I would like to seek advice on whether switching to epee would be a sound choice for someone with ADHD if I wish to do it competitively (at veteran level). I intend to train hard and aspire to take part and do well in FIE veteran competitions when I hit that age.

Background:

I used to fence epee for about 2.5 years while in school and I was just average. Most of the hits I could do at that time during matches were first intention/ at most second intention or defensive types of hits, nothing high level or anything with a lot of planning.

Why I fence foil now:

When i returned to fencing as an adult, I chose foil because I realized that at higher levels (watching matches online) the pace of epee matches were very slow and required a lot of patience to plan many steps ahead and observe and wait for the right moment before attacking. I liked the fast pace of foil matches and the way you could 'go for it' once you had priority without worrying about simultaneous hits. I felt that was more suitable for me as patience is not my strong suit. I do actually enjoy fencing foil more than epee.

Why I'm thinking of switching back to epee:

All the clubs in my area do not have adults foil classes and very very few adults do foil. Almost everyone in my classes are one-third to less than half my age. I do take the initiative to talk some of them but beyond the usual 'introductory getting to know you' questions I find it hard to come up with new conversation topics and hence find it difficult to make friends . I feel lonely.

Also, almost all of them are super competitive. I accept that I am slower and less experienced and not get discouraged when i get trashed by them during bouts. However, I can tell that some of them don't really like fencing me. People rarely ask to fence with me and I am ok with that. I am always the one to approach others and thankfully around 80% do agree to fence with me. However, as much as I tell myself to get over it, I do feel sad when I get rejected after building up the courage to approach them to ask if I could fence with them, especially if it happens more than once that day (Rejection sensitivity dysphoria is a common symptom of ADHD and I am still working on it).

In gist, I feel like I don't really belong and I am thinking if I should switch to epee classes as they are more adult friendly even though I prefer foil.

I will appreciate any advice:)