7s, what's your relationship with other people in general?

Sp7w8 entp-Just making a little survey out of curiosity, do you seek validation? Are you afraid of their judgment? As fear types i think that it's normal to feel the need to fit/having good relationship with other people in order to "survive" and to navigate more safely in the difficulties of the world, that's probably why i'm often concerned and quite anxious about what people think about me, and if i act very spontaneous is just to have more charisma or i know that i can afford it. On the other hand though, i see other famous 7s being completely careless about what they do or say (usually more exfp tho), and i admire them for this. Of course im talking about strangers or episodes where you're not very familiar with, like meeting new people at a party (in that case i let alcohol do its job).

EDIT: im not 100% sure of my instinctual variant