The forgetting

Has anyone had issues with the forgetting just kinda vanishing? I’m working on the acts of care quest right now and I literally can NOT find her 😭 it says she’s in the valley but I look at the map and she isn’t there. I go to the other area (can’t remember the name rn) and I bring her there AND SHE STILL DOESNT SHOW UP. I don’t want to restart because I’ve been playing since the game was in demo and I don’t want to lose anything but I’m going crazy.