Active?

I’m on PS5 & one of my long peeves is how to tell if a player is still active. Like… am I sending a gift to a pawn who has no Arisen or a gift that will become lost in the rift because that pawn & it’s arisen are no longer played…

So, is there a way to find out? I’ve had some rad people hiring my pawns lately (even in the beginning, I don’t recall pawns coming back with eternal wakestones as gifts 😳 though I have sent one before; I am still unsure if the player got it, the pawn I gifted it to is still exactly the same 8 months later… I hired him again to check) & I want to pay it forward (I’ve gone through four Arisen & have two active ones going [plus one that is frozen because her pawn is a SphinxParent & I stopped when they got to a level capable of reaching the first part of the Sphinx quests/Bahttal dye for hair & looks] that are happy to share gifts when possible).

Anyway, if there is no way to tell… that sucks but I get it. If there is, I’ve yet to find that answer.

Equally, while I may take breaks for other games, you’re welcome to friend me for use of my pawns or if you need something you can’t get [nomad dried fruit is my new favourite collection hobby… one day I’ll live in a cranberry world; as someone who hates blueberries the fact I’m always in blueberry worlds seems mean).

I’ll post my active pawns in the comments (can’t edit posts with photos, so in case I gotta edit this one I’ll keep the active ones below; I’ll remove them when they get erased for a new game).

If anyone hired my previous pawns (now happily ruling aside their Arisen beyond the rift) Eammon & E’ador thank you (Wren still wanders the world due to a bug… makes me sad when he walks past me).

TL;dr are you an active player on PS5? Wanna be friends? Wanna let our pawns mock us together when we fall off a cliff? Let me know.