I never thought it would happen to me
Officially done. I am leaving tomorrow!
He has been telling me for months that the money disappearing from his bank account each month must be some sort of subscription service he accidentally signed up for while he was on a guys golfing holiday in thailand last year. He has been complaining about how much I spend on our daughter whilst refusing to cancel that subscription. So i took matters into my own hands.
After an hour and a half of sleuthing I found out that those are child support payments he is making to his 21 year old Thai girlfriend for the baby he impregnated her with the day before our 10 year anniversary. He has a son, 4 months younger than our IVF miracle daughter, with another woman on the other side of the world. I tried for 7 years. She did it in one night.
I thought the weight I gained whilst pregnant was the reason he didnt seem interested. Turns out his mind was elsewhere with his other family.
So I have spent the last month slowly transitioning our house, business, car and dog in to my sole ownership. He will get home from his latest “work trip” tomorrow to find the locks changed, the bank accounts emptied and the credit cards cancelled.
I have been working with a team of legal professionals to make sure I do everything correctly and he will not be entitled to anything from tomorrow onwards. In my mind, its his fault for making me be in charge of everything related to the house and business, if he was more involved he would have noticed what I was doing.
Wishing her the very best of luck with him…. She is going to need it ❤️