I asked her (update)
So I posted a thing a few hours ago about how I meet this girl blah blah blah and i asked her this “Hey, would you be interested in grabbing coffee sometime soon to chat more?"
she responded just now with “yeah fs just let me know when you‘re free”
so now I get to meet her in person, finally, and then if that goes well ask her out officiall. Because this is like a meetup thing I think maybe I don’t know.
woohoo I win!