To the single peeps of coco

How are you able to enjoy heart wrenching/sad breakup songs without no one to think of? I consider myself happily single and has never really felt loneliness or any negative effects because of it and i haven't been in any relationship as well. However i used to have some passionate crushes here and there , so listening to these songs were a beautiful experience especially when i was in a gutwrenching unrequited love 3-4 years ago. Now i got over them and was smooth sailing through life until i was randomly listening to this very sad song and i realised that i couldn't enjoy it at all because i couldn't really get emotional over it😭. It was just meh.

This was something that i was not expecting. These songs doesn't hit as they use to and that's just very sad for me😞🤧.