I cannot catch a break

I have been actively trying to date for the last 5 years and yet all I find is a whole lot of nothing. I was talking to someone(turned off immediately once he told me he's sedavacantist), but once again the fact that I don't want to be a trad wife has stopped me in my tracks. This is my fourth or fifth guy in the last 3 years to tell me that I'm not traditional/Catholice enough. What is wrong with these men? And why are so many TLM weirdos?