How to deal with being told “I’ve lost feelings”

Still healing 3-4 weeks on from breakup but one thing that really bothers me is.

Coming to terms with the fact that she “lost feelings” and “fell out of love” as well as seeing the relationship as “more of a friendship”.

I have come to terms with the fact things changed, we probably weren’t going to stay together until marriage, we were both so young 18-21 years old. And also the fact she turned into quite a rude person further into the relationship.

All these things make it a bit easier to accept the relationship is done but I’m really struggling with coming to terms with the fact she lost feelings and fell out of love.

Being told those was like a stake through the heart and when I think of it still stings a lot.

From spending everyday almost together and talking to letting yourself fall out of love, I just feel stupid and hopeless.

Honestly would rather have been cheated on or ended on good terms but both still having love for each other. But being told they aren’t in love with you anymore is so hard to stomach.

Has anyone else been told the same thing?

When and how did you get over it and stop letting it bother you.

Thanks