Never go back to your ex?

I’ve seen a lot of people saying that you should never go back to your ex, even if you still love them. Because the trust is broken, and can’t be repaired.

I do agree with this somewhat, you broke up for a reason, and it’s probably for the best to stay separated.

But I also don’t agree entirely. Sometimes you just need some time apart, to see what you want in life. And if you both want to, and both work hard for the relationship, I know it can work. You can “reforge” your relationship to something stronger. This is of course if there were no abuse,violence or cheating involved, and everything was mostly great in the relationship.

I know people who broke up, and got back together, and they are still together.

But what do you guys think? Do you think it can work, or is it not worth to even try?

And my second question, would you go back to your ex? I’m myself conflicted, I do still love her, and still see a future with her. But it would be hard to trust her again, and we would have to work really hard for the relationship.