Weird arguments?

I am just remembering weird conversations that led to fights

Her: want to go see that movie on Thursday?

Me: sure if you do

Her: that's not an answer

Me: yeah. If you wanna go I wanna go.

Her: IM GETTING FRUSTRATED (eyes go black)

Me: why?

Her: ANSWER MY FUCKEN QUESTION!!! LETS NOT GO ANYMORE! IF YOU REALLY WANTED TO GO IT WOULD BE A YES!

Me: sit there quiet

or

Her: Do you mind if I go to the farmers market on Saturday?

Me: oh I don't care babe, that sounds nice

Her: and thats exactly the problem, you don't care. You don't take interest or care about anything I'm excited about. I feel alone in this relationship

Me: wait, why is this happening all of a sudden?

Her: it doesn't matter. I can never talk to you about these things. (Goes silent)

Me: me left there confused not wanting to make it worse