BPD story-telling is insane victimized

Me and my ex who I assumed does have untreated bpd had a very big and argument recently broke up.

She had told me everyone she tells the story to agrees with her without doubts. But I have also told my story to a few couple of people, and they seem to be more on my side. I told her to write a reddit post about it (and she did after some time), and man, now I understand why everyone was on her side.

Her story was basiclly a victimized version. Excluding all her reactions, rages and handling of the situations. Also including small adjustment of parts of what actually happened to make me look like the villain.

Its so insane how victimized she became just to get the validation she looking for.