The kink talk

How do you have the new kink talk with your girlfriend? How does it feel knowing your girl has a kink you’re not into? I’m a 25f in a new relationship with a wonderful woman. I recently discovered I have a piss desperation kink. Although we like a little kink play, it’s pretty light dom/sub stuff. I know she won’t be into it like I am. I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable. I’m sure if you’re not into holding, it just feels painful.

It’s the only kind of porn that can turn me on where I feel my heart beating through my body. When we are in bed and she tells me she has to pee, I get horny. I’m dying to rub my hands across her waist and play with her a little. Make her desperate, watch her squirm trying to hold it in while rubbing my fingers over her pussy drawing more attention to it.

This is the first kink I’ve been scared to find out I’m so into. Like a light bulb went off and connected the dots. I don’t want her to feel like she has to make herself uncomfortable for me! I want her to want to give up that control for me, the way we do in other ways.

Any advice on your partner having a kink you don’t? How you handle this? I’m scared to bring it up, the last thing I want to do is make her feel like there’s something I need she can’t give me, or make herself uncomfortable trying.