Women only friend hangouts

I matched with 3 ladies on bumble bff. I told them to invite other women they also met on bumble and we can all hangout together at a public food event in the city. They were down and each invited 1 other friend.

Today I find out one of women (friend of friend) is coming with her husband. I immediately got a friend ick. Am I wrong here? I don’t know her directly so I can’t directly say this is a women’s only hangout… I’m not sure how to avoid this in the future?

I feel bad because I’m immediately writing her off and she could be the best…but girl leave your man at home, I didn’t match with him on bumble bff 😅

Am I in the wrong here?