Do men have something against independent women?

I love asking you women because you’re smart and experienced. I’m a very independent person and not even by choice. I don’t have any help from my family. I’m a single mom and if I don’t provide for us I don’t have anyone to fall back on. I’m just a teacher so it’s not like I’m making a lot of money. But every guy I go after ends it with me and ends up with a girl who lives at home with her parents(I’m not judging, idc) and works a job that requires no education. Is me being educated the issue with them? Is it them knowing that I don’t have to depend on them that turns them off? Again, not judging the other women, it’s just happened so many times now that I feel like those circumstances play a part in it. Also, do I need to date more educated men, is that maybe the issue?