Are you a man who doesn't watch porn and masturbate? Do you exist?

Currently going through a bit of a hard time with my SO. Because it turns out he's sitting at his pc looking at thirst traps at night and in the morning, while I'm sitting here craving sex with him. and feeling unfulfilled. He never initiates anything. Just looks at his thirst traps and never comes to me.

Do men who don't watch porn exist? Do men who actually ALWAYS (or at least 9 times out of 10) prefer real sex with their SO to porn exist? I'm pretty sure my ex was a porn addict as well..