Why are men incapable of comprehending a relationship without sex?

Ya'll know what this is about.

This isn't about a personal boundary of "I don't want to have a relationship without sex". That's absolutely fine. I'm a shallow piece of shit, I wouldn't be in a relationship if there wasn't sexual compatibility.

This is about "If you don't have sex in your relationship, you're just friends" and imposing that on everyone else. Accusing any woman of "withholding" sex as controlling, or tormenting their partner (someone actually used the word "torture" in relation to this)

This is about immediately assuming that she's cheating.

This is about the "cruelty" of "forcing celibacy" on your partner.

Why can you not comprehend that some people may be happy in their relationships without having sex, regardless of the reasons for not having sex.

Edit: thanks ya'll.

I have learned that women are things to put money into and get sex out of ("No sex and paying for things for her . is called a father.").

I have learned that the only way to express love is through sex ("If you don’t want sex in a committed, loving relationship with a person then go find somebody who’s ace.")

and of course, having a low libido is a mental problem ("If people (men or women) are happy in their relationship without sex they have mental/physical/emotional issues that need to be resolved.")

And way too many of you aren't reading the other comments which prove the point of my question. It's one thing to want a personal boundary (No relationship without sex) it's another thing to treat it like a problem for everyone.