What do you guys think
TLDR: Found AI nudes of coworkers and a girl he used to like on bf’s phone, some from last year when we weren’t together, some from just the other day, said they were sent to him by a weirdo at work, idk what to believe anymore
Slightly nsfw. The day before our three month anniversary, I (23-F) got on my bf’s (21-M) iPad to do art bc he lets me do that…I downloaded a reference pic and accidentally deleted it and went to restore it, accidentally hit hidden pics and typed in the passcode bc you have to do that for hidden and recently deleted. I found AI generated pic of this girl he used to like naked, the clothed one next to it, and other AI generated ones of coworkers of his, one he said is like a mom to him, another of this girl ik he works with…
I freaked out and texted him asking wtf and why, things were so perfect, and there were no red flags and he acted so in love with me. He ended up leaving work early with his PTO hours and sped to my house and explained that this guy, James, he used to work with made them and sent them to him and was like haha look at this. And he said he downloaded the pics as proof and forgot to ever delete them…But that the text messages were deleted now bc they were too weird and the James guy was already fired. The thing is, all the other ones were from like summer of 2024, but the most recent one of the girl was from January 23rd of this year, while I was at work, but he said that was only because he uploaded pics from his iCloud onto his iPad to draw stuff and they must have ended up in there with the dates when they uploaded…
I let him explain and have been trying to be normal ab everything, but things felt like a fairytale before, and now it just feels like every other relationship I have, they call me so pretty and just their type, but still have wandering eyes, and I’m like ofc he’s the same, but…
Idk, do you guys think there’s a chance he’s telling the truth…? Do you guys think even if he did do that, even tho it’s weird and so messed up, I Shoukd give him another chance…? My head and heart are so conflicted, things felt to perfect…Probably just too good to be true…It’s hard bc I just got out of an awful four year relationship before him, and wasn’t planning on dating for awhile, but I let my guard down to him and gave him a chance and fell so head over heels…
Idk, I’m just so exhausted atp tbh…Feels like no one loves me like I love them…