What do millennial gays want from music in 2025 and beyond?

Hey fellow millennial gays (and older),

I’ve been thinking a lot about how music trends seem to cater to younger queer people and gays —#TikTok , #hyperpop, and indie sad vibes dominate the scene. But I’m curious: what about us #millennialgays? What do we want from music these days, live show experiences, merch, music videos, content, etc from fellow gay artists or artists who market to gay people.

I’m really interested in hearing what resonates with you in music right now:

• Do you want upbeat anthems or deeper, introspective tracks?
• Are there themes (e.g., growth, community, navigating adult life) you wish artists explored more?
• What’s missing in queer music today that you’d love to see?
• Do you find yourself sticking with artists you grew up with, or are you looking for new voices?
• What kinds of venues?

I think there’s a space for music that reflects where we’re at now. Would love to hear your thoughts. Feel free to drop artist/song recs or just share what you’re vibing with.