Do you want to like men?

This is probably an awful way to phrase the question but I wanted to be direct for the sake of clarity. I'm genuinely asking in good faith because I want to know your thoughts on being attracted to men if you are. Not just romantically but platonically. Is there a yearning for good men or have you lost interest? Is there a feminist perspective on what makes a man good or even great?

I'm also trying to understand feminism better as a culture, not just an ideology.