Do you guys think that monogamy is male centered?

For context: I am a man and I apologize if asking this is in bad taste. I see a good amount of feminist content on my social media feeds overall and I find a majority/pretty much all of the takes true/a bit thought provoking even if they sting a bit sometimes. This one I did ponder and do some research on. I see how this conclusion can be drawn based on hetero-normative relationship dynamics, the prevalence of abuse, and the division of workload in your typical marriage. What are you your guy’s thoughts on this?