what do cancer venus men like?

i recently started talking to a man with a Gemini sun & Aquarius moon for context. Everything I’ve seen so far says that people with cancer venus are very nurturing & clingy, which has been true. But what’s been confusing is that when I’m nurturing or am clingy in return, it always feels like i’m doing too much, even if it’s just a simple i miss you text. I’m assuming this is caused by the his Aquarius moon or his 12th house venus. I’m just so confused!!! Thanks for any advice.

sincerely, a very clingy & emotional cancer moon