“Our” thing “Your thing”

A while ago, I was eating lunch with my AD and well he was silent as usual since our lunches now are much more quiet.

We used to talk and sometimes yell about politics and daily news, but that’s gone since I withdrew from med school.

We did talk on occasion here and there and it usually ends up being toxic. He wanted me to pass the plain buttermilk yogurt for the rice and says that I should have bought more yogurt since they were leaving for a 2 week trip to India.

I interjected: “Look I went to the store not too long ago by myself, if you wanted me to get more, you could have told me, we all share the yogurt in our house so I would have gotten it. It would also be nicer if you did.”

He retorted: “You should always have known because we’re gonna be gone for 2 weeks and you should have planned for it and after you dropped out of med school, we aren’t going to be nice as before. You didn’t even bother consulting us that you dropped out of med school and took your own decision. Our “thing”, your “thing”, it doesn’t matter, you make your own decisions like you did with med school so you can over yogurt.”

I know no amount of arguing will get him to see reason so I just stayed silent and let him talk out his anger because honestly there’s no logic once he starts yelling and screaming.