I cant decide
so i am talking to a guy recently...he is a mix of both pros and cons..i cannot decide what decision to take..so the pros are
1 we were both similar minded people & we strangely have lot of common habits & thought processes
2 a metrocity guy ,progressive,acpts me as i am
the cons are
1 his job is in marketing & he talks too much like,sometimes i get bored while discusssing things..he gives too many examples trying to explain his points.
2 i dint give me my personal number & social media..after 2days he started kinda complaining abt it & asked me if i am not trusting him kinda questions..i tried explaining it to him thats its not abt trust,its abt privacy...bt he doesnt understand my point & finally i gave up & gave my number..bt kinda felt bad after this incident..
3 i think i am not physically much attracted to him,not that he is very bad ,he is 6.5/10,avg built,normal looking but still i feel i am not impressed by his looks at 1st short..he looks differently in each photos,i saw 7,8 photos of him each one of them looks different from diff angle..i am still talking to him bcs sometimes i develop feelings after talking to persons,i fall in lv with their character ..so can someone say physical attraction can be developed after a certain time in AM?
4 he got a little bit offended when i asked him abt his take home salary.bt still he told abt his salary when i explained my situation.
5 he is little bit is in fast pace & take decisions without much thinking & says he is kinda follows that way in life.he says overthinking sabotages things.he literally said ok to proceed in the 3rd day after talking to me.i asked him a month time to decide & he says its ok take ur time & still keeps a check that his family might not wait so long & may expect a answer within 2weeks or so...
6 he has a shift job & will reach home only by 12 in the night & it is permanent,it is somewat disturbing me bcs we might miss our dinner together,i am a early riser & he cannot do it bcs he needs 8hrs of sleep,most of the couple discuss life at night & i might miss them in this case..but he says his company work culture is great ,strict 10hrs work with wfh options ,sat sun off & friendly teams
so guys whats ur stand on this???