AITA for calling my bf poor?

I have my own place but I do spend 5 nights a week at his place because he lives closer to both of our work. He wants me to do more chores, I didn't want to do more chores. We started to talk about what our future looks like after moving in and becoming a family. I intended to hire a housekeeper to minimize chores (deep cleaning, washing baseboards, mopping, etc) beyond basic cleaning (wip down counter, occasional manual vacuuming). He said that's a waste of money, I said housechores is a waste of time. He disagrees and I told him he has a poor man mentality and will remain poor if he continues to do so. He has always said he was insecure about his career/income.

He knows he's the first blue collar man/making under 50k that I have dated in the past. My own income is also several folds higher than his, same with my friends, and all my ex bf.

I can clean up after myself when necessary (and have done so while building my career) but I was raised with the mindset that once I have "made it", I should outsource the chores to buy back my time. He says I'm an AH for acting like I'm better than him and the "regular people" and told me to ask the "regular people of reddit" if I sound like a snob. I said he should let go his toxic masculinity so he doesn't feel emasculated and start looking at the bigger picture (time is the ultimate currency)

In case it's not clear: it was very clear, I would pay for housekeeping.