AIO-Me & my uncle got in an argument about my grandma’s medicine

Yesterday, me (23M) & my uncle (49M) got into a argument about me forgetting to tell my grandma to take her medicine it all started when he came by the house to check on my grandma she been sick with the flu lately I’ve been looking after her constantly and I tell my mom everything pertaining to my grandma so she knows I told my mom two days prior to this situation that my grandma hasn’t been feeling well when I talked to her about it she said she’ll schedule an appointment with her doctor ASAP.

I was sitting on the couch in the living room petting my dog he was in the kitchen with my grandma he noticed her medicine hasn’t been taken today and said rudely “Jordan (my name) why your grandma hasn’t taken her medicine take her medicine today?” My grandma has dementia she takes medicine for it I forgot to tell her sometimes since I have my own responsibilities as an adult I can admit juggling my own responsibilities and taking care of my grandma at the same time can be extremely stressful sometimes once he brought it up I was just being quiet even though I felt myself getting angry.

2 minutes has passed I was being quiet and he said “Hey the dude sitting on the couch why hasn’t your grandma taken her medicine?” Once again I just sat on the couch not saying anything my dog sensed I was upset so he just backed away and went played with his ball that i brought him my uncle stormed out of the house I got up from the couch and walked over to my grandma saying “I have to tend to my own responsibilities as an adult and take care of you at the same time I am only one person I don’t understand why he’s being rude just for forgetting” he came back in the house then we both started yelling at each other back and forth.

I yelled at him and said “I am only one person and can only do so much! I watch over my grandma every single day while you be at work offshore every month and my mom has to work too I have to worry about my own responsibilities as well give me a fucking break uncle!” Then he got in my face and yelled “who you talking to you boy?! You got all this pend up anger and taking it out on me you’re having a pity party your grandma has done everything for you, you don’t care about your grandma you need to pray about it” I backed away and started crying while yelling back “I don’t believe in god I am a atheist don’t force your religion down my throat I hate religion I hate it! I am the only one over here that looks after my grandma while you’re working offshore so don’t you dare say that I don’t care about her!” I forgot okay?”.

When I told him I am an atheist he said “that’s why your life isn’t working for you!” I was sobbing and yelled “go to hell!”. Sorry for the long post but in conclusion AIO?