AIO boyfriend of 1 year that lives in my house rent free threatened me
For context, everything was fine on NYE. Until his friend called him and said he “may get jumped” and needed my boyfriend to drive to the bar he was at 30 minutes away to have his back. Mind you, we are 30 years old.
I reacted by telling him it was stupid to drive 30 min to a bar, drunk, on NYE, for a fight that may or may not happen. My boyfriend looked me in the eye with fuming rage and said, “well if I was out and getting jumped and you didn’t step in to help me, I would jump you.”
He has not been physical with me, but I am growing increasingly concerned. This was the second time he’s threatened to hurt me. He’s broken my belongings as well.
I’m an empath and he does well convincing me things aren’t serious and he just has issues. He also convinces me I am healing him from these issues, and then something like this will happen out of nowhere.
For context, everything was fine on NYE. Until his friend called him and said he “may get jumped” and needed my boyfriend to drive to the bar he was at 30 minutes away to have his back. Mind you, we are 30 years old.
I reacted by telling him it was stupid to drive 30 min to a bar, drunk, on NYE, for a fight that may or may not happen. My boyfriend looked me in the eye with fuming rage and said, “well if I was out and getting jumped and you didn’t step in to help me, I would jump you.”
He has not been physical with me, but I am growing increasingly concerned. This was the second time he’s threatened to hurt me. He’s broken my belongings as well.
I’m an empath and he does well convincing me things aren’t serious and he just has issues. He also convinces me I am healing him from these issues, and then something like this will happen out of nowhere.