AIO for wanting to end my relationship over this text exchange?
I'm yellow(27f) and he's blue (37m) I have been in severely bad physical health lately, and yesterday it got especially bad because I went to urgent care due to being in extreme pain. Before I went i had called him, crying, and he answered but ignored me without responding to anything I was saying cus he was focusing on his fortnite game. No comfort just dead silence and I kept asking him if he was there and he just didn't answer beyond "I'm just focusing on my game" while I was crying about being in pain and scared about going to the doctors.
I got off the phone and I, I admit i was very upset and distraught because I was extremely sleep deprived, stressed, and my sickness had progressed really bad so yesterday I was crying and called my mom who I was no contact with to drive me to urgent care in another city. This is why I'm thinking I may be overreacting. Cus emotional and not thinking clearly. After that call ended these texts transpired. He closed his discord and didn't talk to me again for hours until really late at night and hasn't seemed concerned at all or supportive in the slightest. I was distraught and crying and had to speak with police that day cus the leasing office insisted it was a police issue which I was extremely distraught talking to the officers too.
And today we were playing fortnite, I was telling him I was worried I'd lose my apartment cus I'm allergic to the smoke my neighbors are smoking and the leasing office said they can't move me and would just terminate my lease to my apartment, which would make me homeless a second time this year. But he ignored me again saying he was focusing on the game and just simply didn't hear me.
Am I overreacting? I'm stressed and probably overreacting, but I don't know. The way he texted me and simply "went offline" after his last text on discord and refused to respond to me or check on me or anything has me extremely concerned. I don't know :( I feel like he doesn't care about me. I'm not good at reading things sometimes so I don't know if I'm misunderstanding cus I'm stressed and sick or if he just doesn't care about me at all.
I'm yellow(27f) and he's blue (37m) I have been in severely bad physical health lately, and yesterday it got especially bad because I went to urgent care due to being in extreme pain. Before I went i had called him, crying, and he answered but ignored me without responding to anything I was saying cus he was focusing on his fortnite game. No comfort just dead silence and I kept asking him if he was there and he just didn't answer beyond "I'm just focusing on my game" while I was crying about being in pain and scared about going to the doctors.
I got off the phone and I, I admit i was very upset and distraught because I was extremely sleep deprived, stressed, and my sickness had progressed really bad so yesterday I was crying and called my mom who I was no contact with to drive me to urgent care in another city. This is why I'm thinking I may be overreacting. Cus emotional and not thinking clearly. After that call ended these texts transpired. He closed his discord and didn't talk to me again for hours until really late at night and hasn't seemed concerned at all or supportive in the slightest. I was distraught and crying and had to speak with police that day cus the leasing office insisted it was a police issue which I was extremely distraught talking to the officers too.
And today we were playing fortnite, I was telling him I was worried I'd lose my apartment cus I'm allergic to the smoke my neighbors are smoking and the leasing office said they can't move me and would just terminate my lease to my apartment, which would make me homeless a second time this year. But he ignored me again saying he was focusing on the game and just simply didn't hear me.
Am I overreacting? I'm stressed and probably overreacting, but I don't know. The way he texted me and simply "went offline" after his last text on discord and refused to respond to me or check on me or anything has me extremely concerned. I don't know :( I feel like he doesn't care about me. I'm not good at reading things sometimes so I don't know if I'm misunderstanding cus I'm stressed and sick or if he just doesn't care about me at all.