Having crisis friends
I (28f) have realized that I surround myself with people that always are in a crisis, always consumed by drama, broke, etc. I have always been the “problem solving friend” or “fixer friend” but I am OVER IT.
I have my life together as best as I can. I make good money, I have a house, a dog and hobbies I love. Now that im getting older, I’m getting over not being able to do things with my friends unless I pay for it or it being hosted at my house (all of them live at home with their parents).
What do I do? Hard reset and find new friends? Keep my friendships but make new ones also? I’m so lost because I keep seeing the phrase “you are who you surround yourself with”…