AITA: shaving my for my husband

Am o the asshole for being upset with my husband for asking me to shave?

We live in the north, it is winter and I have not shaved my legs in probably about a month due to seasonal depression/not needing to wear shorts in this weather.

My husband came to bed and saw my lying with one leg out of the covers and commented on my leg hair. He then asked if we were supposed to have sex after seeing my leg like that. I told him I could go shave but it would take a while and I’m already in bed so I really didn’t want to.

He just told me again how unattractive and manly it is to have hair on my legs. I don’t prefer body hair, but I’ve never asked him to shave it because I love him, the person, and I’m attracted to him, the person regardless of how body hair. He just looked pissed like he didn’t think it was the same thing. What the hell?

I told him to forget it and that we’re not having sex again until he understands what upset me and apologizes for being so rude. Am I in the wrong here?