Aita for divorcing my wife and telling everyone that my she cheated on me

Tldr my wife cheated on me and after everyone in our families started calling me names for divorcing my wife i decided to tell everyone the reason which made my wife furious

I decided that i needed to clear everything between us before I file so we can have a clean divorce, I called my wife and told her to meet me to talk, I asked her to meet me in a park near my house

When my wife came she hugged me and she asked me to let's go home, I refused and said I asked her to meet me to clear things up between us, which made her a bit angry and she said I am being unreasonable

I said wouldn't you be angry if you found out I was drinking and dancing and kissing other women and hiding it all from you? She said she would but she wouldn't throw away a relationship of 6 years over this

I said that is easy for you to say cause you cheated and I didn't and I just want a clean divorce, she asked me why am I not open to reconciliation, I said cause you broke my trust and I don't want to spend rest of my life worrying about what my wife is doing behind my back and how would I know if it's only just a kiss and nothing else happened and she didn't or wouldn't kiss anyone else? I just want a divorce

She said divorce is a long and extreme and she loves me and she said she's sorry and she will try to delay as much as possible cause she doesn't want to lose me, I said I am sorry as well but I am done, I love you but you stepped out of marriage, let's not fight and you keep what's yours and I keep what's mine

I told her that I have evidence of your infidelity and also you tried to throw our families against me, I tried to keep it between us but you went too far and I only told them the truth after they were harrassing me and I still hid it from your coworkers so it doesn't get difficult for you in your workplace, let's just divorce

Well I don't know shit about legal process and yes I did pulled all that shit out of my ass, My wife cried a bit and I hugged her and told her that it's over, there is no fixing this, we love each other but love is not everything when it comes to marriage I can't forgive you for kissing some random ass man and I left

I have been ignoring her texts and I am going to look for and fill, but I also truly don't understand what's up with all these people telling me 'its just a kiss'? How do you know? Even I don't know if it's just 1 kiss or it happened before or it was more than that?

No matter how tough or expensive it is I am going through it, I have made up my mind I won't back down, I don't want to be like one of those men who forgive their cheating wives only to find out later that wife is still cheating or those who gets cucked and are raising someone else's kid obliviously or find out later on that child isn't biologically his