What phrase do non-ADHD people tell you that pisses you off the most?

For me it’s the “You’re too sensitive”, what do you mean I’m too sensitive because I assumed someone is mad at me because they did actions that resembled that?

Also, things like “just create a to-do list” or “stop being lazy” yeah, good luck on thinking this is going to change anything, my disorder is medically proven to cause executive dysfunction and organization difficulties.